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but then i stop before i can do so.

sometimes I just… over explain things? And if you listen then TOO BAD FOR YOUUUUU.

it’s weird when somebody just starts telling you these deep intimate things about themselves

but it’s also awesome

people should do that more often

there should be a disclaimer whenever you start to explain your life to them. lol. a giant ass sign that says “HARK! If you listen to me, YOU’LL LITERALLY LEARN ABOUT EEEEVERYTHIIING” then proceed anyways. 

there’s no chance to get out of it once it starts

i dunno, it’s kinda like jumping into a pool of cold water versus testing it with your toes so that you KNOW it’s cold but you still have to do it anyways otherwise you’ll get pushed in

i just like the idea of random people coming up to me and telling me their stories and me not having to be involved

because that’s totally happened on many occasions.

oooooh, dude telling your entire life story to a stranger is probably one of the best things ever. you don’t have to feel inhibited and the stranger doesn’t have to care about it. no wonder movie characters do it all the time. genius i say. 

cause if you tell it to your friends, there’s always the fear of the awkwardness or even worse, they will still be friends with you but look at you differently from then on. and that latter part sucks horse dicks. darn you emotional investment. 

oh my gosh you are the best!

that is so awesome, just getting shit off your chest to somebody you’ll never see again? Especially then they actually like. care enough to listen. but aren’t judgmental. 

that’s the thing with long term relationships, man. what you do now in them affects how it will continue in the future. but that’s also how you get closer to people, I guess.

One thing I learned this past quarter is that there are all different gradients of friendship, and that some people just aren’t meant to bear your shit, y’know? You’ll never be able to fully open up to them, but that’s okay. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person or friend or whatever, it just means your relationship is stuck at that certain level in that one certain part, but you can grown on other levels. And blah.

…I’m tired.

haha, true that! it’s not like certain relationship levels are better than others. they’re all equally important. cause you need that one person to complain to about everything, then another you just party, etc. there’s only a problem when you can’t seem to open up to the people you consider the closest to. then there’s probably a trouble in your own end. cause those peoples can probably handle it if they’re that close to you. you just need to get your shit together and learn to trust people. 

okay, we’ve deviated from the topic quite a bit. yes. telling absolute strangers all about your voyages in pigfarts is quite possibly one of the best things to do. ever.  

Hahaha, yes. 

LONELY PEOPLE WHO COMMENT ON THIS. Feel free to hit me up with your shit if you ever need to just get it out.